What We Do: Purl Current Services
Purl has always been a deeply personal, mission-driven resource for prospective adoptive families across the U.S.. Over the years, we’ve refined and shifted our offerings to better meet the needs of families navigating today’s adoption landscape—without losing the heart that has defined us from the beginning.
As of Fall 2025, we’re excited to offer our “Purls of Wisdom Package”, created to educate and support families pursuing domestic infant adoption. Purl now operates as an extension of our founder Katie Zimmerman’s new law firm, Adoption and Family Building Services (AFBS)—allowing us to strengthen our offerings while staying true to our roots.
Eight years ago, Katie laid the groundwork for Purl with her vision, deep legal knowledge, and passion for ethical adoption. While she now focuses on her law practice, she continues to support Purl behind the scenes—ensuring the work she started remains thoughtful, grounded, and aligned with the needs of today’s families and adoptees.
We Are Not Consultants—And Why That Matters
We’ve said it before, and we’ll say it again: Purl is not a consultant—and that is intentional. Adoption consultants tend to focus primarily on helping families get matched, and that’s not what we’re here for. That’s what sets Purl apart. We believe the match and placement are only one part of the journey. Yes, being matched and placed with a child is exciting—but adoption is also layered with loss, complexity, and lifelong impact, especially for the child and birth parent(s). Our focus is on preparing prospective adoptive families for what comes before, during, and after the match—so they can show up with empathy, openness, and a clear understanding of what adoption truly entails.
Instead of rushing toward placement, we prioritize education, preparation, and meaningful support, helping families feel confident, informed, and grounded. Because adoption isn’t just about getting a child—it’s about becoming the kind of parent your child will need for years to come.
Taking a Multi-Agency and Attorney Approach
At Purl, we encourage families to take a multi-agency, multi-attorney approach. This strategy gives prospective adoptive parents greater flexibility, broader access to opportunities, and a more empowered role in their adoption journey.
By engaging with more than one agency or attorney at a time, our families are often able to:
- Match more quickly, because they aren’t limited to a single agency’s waiting list or internal process
- Pay less in upfront fees, as they can compare fee structures and avoid putting all their resources into one pathway
- Maintain control and flexibility, choosing professionals who truly align with their family’s needs, values, location, and adoption preferences
Rather than passively waiting, this approach allows families to take a more strategic and proactive role in their adoption journey.
BUT! choosing multiple professionals doesn’t mean choosing blindly. We help families approach this method intentionally, encouraging them to research each agency and attorney thoroughly, even if they come highly recommended by friends or other professionals. This includes evaluating placement rates, total fees, and—most importantly—the level of support and advocacy provided to expectant parents, such as:
- Options counseling
- Separate legal representation
- Case management
- Post-placement counseling and support
We also recommend that families connect with an experienced adoption attorney in their home state, as they’ll likely need one at some point in the process and can be a valuable resource for referrals—or warnings—about local professionals. We particularly suggest looking for attorneys who are members of the Academy of Adoption and Assisted Reproduction Attorneys (AAAA), as this credential reflects experience, vetting, and adherence to high professional standards.
This approach isn’t just about expanding your chances—it’s about being thoughtful, informed, and proactive in a process that often feels overwhelming. It’s one of the many ways we support families in building a solid, informed foundation—not just for placement, but for lifelong adoptive parenting.
The Purls of Wisdom Package: Our Core Offering
Our signature Purls of Wisdom Package is designed to support families at any point in their adoption journey. Included in this package:
- Three One-on-One Coaching Sessions
-
- Tailored video calls to guide families through their journey—from getting started to making informed, ethical decisions.
- Comprehensive Adoptive Parent Guidebook
-
- A deep, practical resource covering nearly every topic regarding the adoption journey.
- Curated List of Adoption Professionals
-
- Thoughtfully selected attorneys and agencies—based on your location, budget, family makeup, and adoption preferences.
- Quarterly Live Group Coaching Calls
-
- Interactive sessions featuring guest speakers from across the adoption constellation: adoptees, birth parents, adoptive parents, medical professionals, and more.
- Extensive Library of Recorded Webinars
-
- Covering a wide range of topics: open adoption, transracial parenting, substance exposure, attachment, trauma, and more.
- Discounted Profile Book Design Services
-
- We help your family present its story with clarity, authenticity, and empathy—always with expectant parent(s) in mind.
Additionally, we occasionally share with our active Purl families adoption opportunities from agencies and attorneys in our network who are seeking prepared, thoughtful prospective adoptive families that meet the preferences of the expectant parent(s).
Click here for current pricing.
Note: Returning Purl families receive $500 off and include two coaching sessions (rather than three), as they’ve often already completed foundational work with us.
Why Families Choose Purl
Families come to Purl looking for clarity, grounded information, and real support. They choose to work with us because they feel seen, empowered, and prepared.
Our clients range from those just starting out and unsure where to begin to families deep into the process who have been waiting a long time without guidance or feedback.
What sets us apart:
- Lived experience as adoptive parents
- Professional expertise in law, public health, and child development
- A commitment to always center the adoptee and act with integrity
We don’t just help you “complete” the adoption process—we help you understand it, navigate it ethically, and prepare to parent in a way that honors your child’s full story.
If you’re interested in more information or would like to schedule a free consultation, please complete this form. We would love to support you on your journey!
If you are a family interested in embryo adoption, our Founder, CEO and attorney Katie Zimmerman, is happy to offer coaching calls on a monthly basis to help you better understand this often overlooked manner of growing your family!
What We Do: Purl Current Services
Purl has always been a deeply personal, mission-driven resource for prospective adoptive families across the U.S.. Over the years, we’ve refined and shifted our offerings to better meet the needs of families navigating today’s adoption landscape—without losing the heart that has defined us from the beginning.
As of Fall 2025, we’re excited to offer our “Purls of Wisdom Package”, created to educate and support families pursuing domestic infant adoption. Purl now operates as an extension of our founder Katie Zimmerman’s new law firm, Adoption and Family Building Services (AFBS)—allowing us to strengthen our offerings while staying true to our roots.
Eight years ago, Katie laid the groundwork for Purl with her vision, deep legal knowledge, and passion for ethical adoption. While she now focuses on her law practice, she continues to support Purl behind the scenes—ensuring the work she started remains thoughtful, grounded, and aligned with the needs of today’s families and adoptees.
We Are Not Consultants—And Why That Matters
We’ve said it before, and we’ll say it again: Purl is not a consultant—and that is intentional. Adoption consultants tend to focus primarily on helping families get matched, and that’s not what we’re here for. That’s what sets Purl apart. We believe the match and placement are only one part of the journey. Yes, being matched and placed with a child is exciting—but adoption is also layered with loss, complexity, and lifelong impact, especially for the child and birth parent(s). Our focus is on preparing prospective adoptive families for what comes before, during, and after the match—so they can show up with empathy, openness, and a clear understanding of what adoption truly entails.
Instead of rushing toward placement, we prioritize education, preparation, and meaningful support, helping families feel confident, informed, and grounded. Because adoption isn’t just about getting a child—it’s about becoming the kind of parent your child will need for years to come.
Taking a Multi-Agency and Attorney Approach
At Purl, we encourage families to take a multi-agency, multi-attorney approach. This strategy gives prospective adoptive parents greater flexibility, broader access to opportunities, and a more empowered role in their adoption journey.
By engaging with more than one agency or attorney at a time, our families are often able to:
- Match more quickly, because they aren’t limited to a single agency’s waiting list or internal process
- Pay less in upfront fees, as they can compare fee structures and avoid putting all their resources into one pathway
- Maintain control and flexibility, choosing professionals who truly align with their family’s needs, values, location, and adoption preferences
Rather than passively waiting, this approach allows families to take a more strategic and proactive role in their adoption journey.
BUT! choosing multiple professionals doesn’t mean choosing blindly. We help families approach this method intentionally, encouraging them to research each agency and attorney thoroughly, even if they come highly recommended by friends or other professionals. This includes evaluating placement rates, total fees, and—most importantly—the level of support and advocacy provided to expectant parents, such as:
- Options counseling
- Separate legal representation
- Case management
- Post-placement counseling and support
We also recommend that families connect with an experienced adoption attorney in their home state, as they’ll likely need one at some point in the process and can be a valuable resource for referrals—or warnings—about local professionals. We particularly suggest looking for attorneys who are members of the Academy of Adoption and Assisted Reproduction Attorneys (AAAA), as this credential reflects experience, vetting, and adherence to high professional standards.
This approach isn’t just about expanding your chances—it’s about being thoughtful, informed, and proactive in a process that often feels overwhelming. It’s one of the many ways we support families in building a solid, informed foundation—not just for placement, but for lifelong adoptive parenting.
The Purls of Wisdom Package: Our Core Offering
Our signature Purls of Wisdom Package is designed to support families at any point in their adoption journey. Included in this package:
- Three One-on-One Coaching Sessions
-
- Tailored video calls to guide families through their journey—from getting started to making informed, ethical decisions.
- Comprehensive Adoptive Parent Guidebook
-
- A deep, practical resource covering nearly every topic regarding the adoption journey.
- Curated List of Adoption Professionals
-
- Thoughtfully selected attorneys and agencies—based on your location, budget, family makeup, and adoption preferences.
- Quarterly Live Group Coaching Calls
-
- Interactive sessions featuring guest speakers from across the adoption constellation: adoptees, birth parents, adoptive parents, medical professionals, and more.
- Extensive Library of Recorded Webinars
-
- Covering a wide range of topics: open adoption, transracial parenting, substance exposure, attachment, trauma, and more.
- Discounted Profile Book Design Services
-
- We help your family present its story with clarity, authenticity, and empathy—always with expectant parent(s) in mind.
Additionally, we occasionally share with our active Purl families adoption opportunities from agencies and attorneys in our network who are seeking prepared, thoughtful prospective adoptive families that meet the preferences of the expectant parent(s).
Click here for current pricing.
Note: Returning Purl families receive $500 off and include two coaching sessions (rather than three), as they’ve often already completed foundational work with us.
Why Families Choose Purl
Families come to Purl looking for clarity, grounded information, and real support. They choose to work with us because they feel seen, empowered, and prepared.
Our clients range from those just starting out and unsure where to begin to families deep into the process who have been waiting a long time without guidance or feedback.
What sets us apart:
- Lived experience as adoptive parents
- Professional expertise in law, public health, and child development
- A commitment to always center the adoptee and act with integrity
We don’t just help you “complete” the adoption process—we help you understand it, navigate it ethically, and prepare to parent in a way that honors your child’s full story.
If you’re interested in more information or would like to schedule a free consultation, please complete this form. We would love to support you on your journey!
If you are a family interested in embryo adoption, our Founder, CEO and attorney Katie Zimmerman, is happy to offer coaching calls on a monthly basis to help you better understand this often overlooked manner of growing your family!
